Spring is officially here. Our daylight is now longer than our darkness. With the changes of the seasons comes a change in attitudes and perceptions. We spent the winter months holed up in our quiet spaces, enjoying our introspection and we went through periods of spiritual hibernation & physical slumber. Now though, it’s time to turn over a new leaf. The energy has shifted. Can you feel it? It’s time once again to grow. Let’s do it on purpose.
We both grieve and celebrate each passing year, as it should be. Each lap around the sun leaves us more experienced, more raw, and more honest. There can be pieces of it we enjoy, and parts of it which leave wounds that will continue to weep as we heal them. In our pain we are able to distill learning into wisdom. We step back and reflect. This internal pontificating is necessary. But, there comes a time to let it go and trudge forward. Gardeners know that pruning in spring causes more hardy plants. As above so below…we follow this same template as well. We must let loose the past to make room for the future. Which things in your life make the cut and which do not? Pruning helps make healthy new growth possible. If you’ve not done this yet, now is he time to do so.
You will advance and you will learn and you will grow, season by season. Given this, you may as well decide intentionally where in your life your new growth will be. Spring is the time to plant your seeds. I challenge you this spring to begin growing deliberately. Since you have no choice but to move forward, will you be determined enough to progress on purpose? This life is yours after all, you might as well be a conscious creator of it.
We’re here to live the most meaningful life we are able. We are to use our strengths to uplift both ourselves and others. Stagnation has no place in those of magickal means! I propose that this spring you balance the scales between ‘what you choose to do’ and ‘what happens to you’. It’s spring, so plant seeds of growth and change (Ostara!!). Continue to nurture your budding idea and follow it through to see it’s fruits. It’s in the sharing of your fruits that others benefit from your efforts as well. When they bear witness to your growth and wisdom, they are empowered themselves. So, plant your seeds for you, knowing that the fruits of your labor will likely be shared. In this way our blessings multiply and continue to give.
Each year I set about learning or doing something intentionally to foster my growth. I toss out to the universe to aim me toward what will stir my soul in the most potent way for a year. I’ve committed a year to crystals, a year to meditation, a year to energy healing, a year to writing a book…each time I set a goal and followed it through. I set the intention that my aim is straight and true, that all will occur in the right timing for the right purposes. My annual focus project doesn’t feel like an assignment, nor a chore to be crossed off a list. In fact, it resonates so deeply that I can’t help but gravitate toward it with childlike wonder. I’m in my bliss exploring it.
Last year I learned herbology as I’d decided to learn of the many health and magickal uses of the plant kingdom. I gathered plants in the woods, attended talks & walks with others, read botany books, grew strange and wonderful things in my greenhouse …all in the spirit of exploration and fun. I had no idea that in the end I would wind up with a legit apothecary in my home chock full of things for spells, poultices, teas, tinctures and such. Last fall I planted deliberately a witches garden that will come up this year when the snow recedes. Once winter hit I headed to the secondhand store and grabbed up a food dehydrator, knowing full well that this year I’ll reap the bounty of what was sown last year. I know my learning on the topic will never cease, yet the culmination of my efforts have already begun to be apparent to me.
This year is another theme of ‘self care’ for me. I’ve decided to foster my creative side by learning a new musical instrument (ukulele this time), my analytical side by learning a new language (Latin), and my physical body by learning yoga (getting stiff as I age!). Chances are good that these combined will be easily more than a one year project, but that doesn’t matter much. It feels good to grow. Each of these new things I add to my bag of tricks I do for myself with only myself in mind. Yet I am aware that the skill set I adopt will become an inherent part of me, and as such, will undoubtedly benefit others. Someone will need an odd herb and I’ll have it to gift, someone will need healing and I’ll be able to offer it, someone will want to learn to meditate & I will teach, someone will need to laugh and I’ll drag out my uke and sing the Scottish Drinking Song at the top of my lungs. It’s give and take until all returns to it’s source. And I’m good with that.
My life isn’t my own. And, I love that it isn’t. We’re all dynamic and part of a whole. We are all intimately connected. When I heal, I help you have the courage to do the same. When I’m challenged you shelter me in turn. We know full well that the rule of three will keep us rebounding into the future but that isn’t what inherently drives us. We are intrinsically community-based and we seek what betters both ourselves and our brethren. When I become learned on a topic, my education is an asset to our pagan community. I learn and experience specifically on purpose and my life is better for it. I honor life itself in this way. It makes no sense to not take advantage of all that I have within my reach for the betterment of myself and others. And, You could do the same if you like…
This spring, make a point to be deliberate with your thoughts and your actions. Choose what to prune, take a sip of strong whiskey, then just do it. It will heal, trust me. If you need help with it, I’m here (and, I have whiskey too lol ). Ask aloud to that which you hold sacred “What could I learn or do this year that will cause my spirit to soar? What is the best way for me to go about expanding my experience intentionally?” Then listen, and laugh at how easily the answers come tumbling in so clear that you probably should have been able to guess them. Create a target, mark your aim. Now is the time to sew your seeds of growth and change. Plan to tend your new project for up to a year. Be overt in your stretching of your own boundaries. I thank you for it. I benefit from it. I truly, sincerely do. We all do. Thanks for your bravery, and thanks for being deliberate.
What stirs your soul and how will you choose to grow?? I’m looking forward to bearing witness to it.
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